©darrengarcia |
It's just absurd how we adore and devalue others merely because of what we see. We are all of the same bodily characteristics, slight differences make us distinct. Why do we prefer something over the other? It's because society tells us so.
Now if you live in Burma, Kayan people would label you beautiful based on the number of brass coils painfully stretching your neck. Come to think of it, people strive to be called "beautiful" to be elevated from society, to be distinct, and to have the superiority.
Who are we to say "ugly"? I am truly offended and disheartened how people reacted to Janine Tugonon's break-up. It displayed the arrogance of most people. It reflected how society shamefully thinks. They take pride in perviously destroying a person through constant mocking.
Why can we not live to actualize ourselves? We do not need to be socially accepted to realize our worth. I understand that it is really difficult to stand against the pressure that society imposes upon everyone, to constantly keep up with the trend just to belong. We fear what others might say but not fear what could be compromised. We change for others but not for the better.